Some of my earliest memories involve music, and good music is still one of my greatest joys today. My mother loves music too and shared that with me. In fact, when I was only 6, she gave me my first album (yep – the old vinyl kind) of Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker Suite. There was always music in our house – records and the radio when we were younger, and then our own as my brother and sister and I got old enough to make music ourselves. I really believe it is a gift to instill an appreciation of music in your children. It can be a comfort, a joy and an inspiration.
There are lots of formal programs to teach music to kids: the Suzuki method is one of the most well known. We’ve all seen the groups of 3 and 4 year olds with tiny violins. Programs like that are great, but it’s easy to expose your children to music in ways that can be fun for the whole family.
Put on your favorite CD or play the radio and encourage your child to tap, walk or dance to the beat. Different tempos and beats can make her feel calm, happy or energized. You can also talk about what sounds you both hear. Challenge her to hear a voice, a drum, a piano or a guitar. She’ll begin to listen more closely and appreciate the different themes and harmonies that make up the song.
If your child expresses an interest, you may consider purchasing a simple instrument for her to explore. A Lap Harp is great for this because it’s easy to play and get quick results. Our model comes with song sheets that fit right under the strings, so it’s easy to see which ones to pluck to play the melody. Encourage her to perform for the family and let everyone have a turn. Make sure to applaud and cheer loudly for everyone. There’s nothing like positive reinforcement to keep a kid interested and working on a skill.
Guitar or piano lessons might be the next step for your 6 to 8 year old if she seems to want to develop her musical skills even further. It’s usually easier for the child (and the teacher) if they have some basic reading skills before starting formal lessons. And there is a certain level of fine motor skills that are required so the child can get the results that will keep her interested in pursuing her lessons.
Whatever you do, make it fun and do it as a family. I have to say that some of my favorite memories are of my family standing around the piano harmonizing to hymns and old songs. Mom and I still compare notes on the latest CD releases and attend concerts together whenever we can. The love of music is a gift that will last a lifetime for your child.
by Lynn G, Director of Marketing